Comments on: Re : Is it worth this

By: upsy

upsy — Thu, 21 Jun 2007 05:34:46 +0000

u suck sometime!!!

By: utkarsh

utkarsh — Tue, 30 Nov 1999 00:00:00 +0000

not convincing ..
Did’nt get that post .. on one side you say that you don’t want to “hype” the decision of choosing your love life and on other you say that you would choose your parents over love life. See the problem is .. that the decision of choosing love life is already “hyped” .. because traditionally it’s the parents who do it .. but when we do it ourselves, it becomes a BIIG deal for them .. because I think they might feel like we are steeping into their territory .. so .. it really does’nt matter how good and great our love is .. it has already become an ego issue for our parents .. and so .. they would NEVER accept it with FREE will .. yeah .. they might accept it out of fear that the child ( us ) might do something incredibly stupid like eloping .. but out of free will .. forget it .. I don’t think that Love life and Family Love can co-exist and hence the question of “choosing between the two” arises .. which makes or breaks atleast one aspect of OUR life .. hence the HYPE.

By: me

me — Tue, 30 Nov 1999 00:00:00 +0000

me too…
“I don’t think that Love life and Family Love can co-exist”

maybe be. maybe its true for 99% of the times. but then I would try to be among the 1%.

“I don’t think that Love life and Family Love can co-exist”

K if that what people say. But I will give it a try. My try.

Wont there be love between you n your “arranged” wife. Doesn’t it hold true for that kind of love. Why does “my choosing of wife” make this big difference.

I know. You are thinking, there is no use arguing with me. Its okey. Mein aisa hi hoon.

By: utkarsh

utkarsh — Tue, 30 Nov 1999 00:00:00 +0000

no use .. he he
I thought people would say that about me “No use arguing with me” .. but this is one thing I too want to talk about.
Trying to be in the 1% .. well .. I don’t think that any of those 99% wanted to be in the 99% .. but thatz the way life is. As for efforts .. thatz all we can do ..
As for Love between arranged wife and me .. answer it yourself ..will it be even close to what you have at present ?
and hence the Argument continued

By: pati

pati — Tue, 30 Nov 1999 00:00:00 +0000

Wat the hell…..
I came back from home yesterday and the whole trip had short sweet disastrous talks abt arranged marriage and with evert talk my heart beating faster for Chiku……wat the hell ….. u guys decide on smthing and I hope I will follow it blindly…..

by the way hows Chennai … Meetu…. :))